Wednesday, June 13, 2012

A Moment for Wistfulness

I'm 32 weeks pregnant today, and my first experience with pregnancy has been a good one so far.  I feel bad if I even think whiny or negative thoughts because I have been immensely blessed, and it is very important to me not to take that for granted.

But today, for a few moments, I was a little wistful.  I was driving home from VBS and a bit of shopping with my mom, and I drove on a road I used to run with my morning running crew.  It is a tough, hilly road and there was a time when I couldn't run the whole thing.  I eventually got to the point where I could and then I got to the point where I could run it quickly in the middle of a route with no trouble at all, as if it were just another piece of flat road.  That always felt so good.  During my drive home I also had a view of the water tower that sits at the top of what we like to call "the dragon."  That hill is even meaner than the road mentioned above and as I looked up at it I sighed just a little.

It feels ungrateful to say it, but I really look forward to when I can run those hilly courses easily again.  When my feet glide lightly over the pavement, when a slimmer version of my legs run strong and sure on whatever course I throw at them, when I do not easily grow tired and when I don't give a second thought to how far away I am from a bathroom.  I look forward to 50 mile weeks and surpassing my previous weekly and monthly mileage totals.  I look forward to putting into practice all the things I have learned about running, health and fitness in the courses I have taken since I've been pregnant.  I look forward to a faster marathon and another 50 mile race.  I look forward to testing those limits again and pushing them back even further.

Jason tells me not to wish this time away, but I find that difficult at times.  Not only am I ready for this little girl to be here so I can see her, touch her, and know her, I am ready to have my runner's body back.  And by that, I don't mean how I look, I mean how I feel and what I am able to do.

I remember running on one of my favorite paths at work way back when Jason and I started talking about having a baby.  I was going for an afternoon 10 miler and the day was absolutely perfect.  I remember feeling strong, lithe, free and full of life - like I could run forever.  I also remember thinking to myself, "Enjoy this moment, Jane. Soak it up and live in it right now."  I didn't know when or how, but I knew change would come.  I knew that moment and many like it would eventually give way to different ones and that it might be a while before I got another moment like that again. 

Now that I'm pregnant, I'm glad I did that.  I soaked up many moments like that one and I had quite a while before I'd actually have to slow down and allow my body to do something else.  But I didn't know that then.  All I knew was that moment, running fast and free, running without limitations, loving it and living in it.

I believe those moments will come around again.  And I am not ungrateful or unhappy with the moment in which I now find myself.  Far from it!  I count myself extremely blessed and spend time in awe of all that God has done for me.  But just for a while today I allowed myself to feel wistful, to remember and to look forward to when those beloved running moments return to me once again.

Now back to dreaming of Eloise Jane!

4 comments:

  1. you will be there before you know it! to encourage you, it hit me the other day that i can bend down again! with no problems! :) it's the little joys in post-partum life... love you and can't wait to hear about eloise jane's arrival!!!

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  2. They will come around again! Pregnancy gave me amazing perspective on obesity as well. I know there are a lot of factors with pregnancy, but losing 50 lbs. in a short period of time (after the birth of babies) made me realize what a struggle 50 lbs. can be. With every move I made, I felt those 50 lbs.

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  3. It's such a crazy journey, isn't it? It's hard not to miss something that is so much a part of you, and encouraging to look forward to it again...to know it's there waiting for you on the flip side. :) What a great example you are of enjoying the moment!

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  4. Thank you for the encouragement girls!! It means a lot!!

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